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Porn – The Unappreciated Educator

My mum taught me all the basics of ‘womanly’ life, cooking, cleaning, even chasing after kids I’m yet to have, but she never taught me how to ride a dick. There are certain things our parents will never teach us, and here lies the problem.

When it comes to sex, we’re expected to learn on the job. Climb on top and rock his world, bend over and bounce that ass back. The first time a guy flipped me over to ride his dick I wasn’t even sure what I was supposed to be doing. Sit there? Rock back and forth? Maybe I should just smile and start a conversation? That was the beginning of my sexual learning curve.

Guys watch porn from the moment they can get online without adult content lock. That’s where they learn to stroke, find your spot, suck your tits, and even then some are still shit. Have you leaving the morning after thinking what a waste of my time and NC40, so imagine how much worse it could be. Girls never feel that pressure to research. We are raised to assume during sex we just lay there, look pretty and take that dick. It’s once I started listening to slow jams in my late teens that I realised I might have to do a bit more than just my hair and make-up.

Porn isn’t just a means of jerking off. It teaches us what’s hot, what’s not, new shit we didn’t know we wanted to try, let alone thought we would enjoy. It forces us to push the boundaries that we didn’t even think existed in the confines of our sexual encounters.

I can watch porn any time and feel no way about it because I’m making use of a FREE adult educational tool. However, if I preferred to stay at home and watch porn instead of going out or having actual sex, then clearly I’d have issues. Porn only becomes a problem when it’s obsessive and fucks up our ability to have meaningful relationships with real people. Not watching any porn at all, is like wanting to get a 1st class honours in our degree but refusing to revise. Ignorance is not bliss.

Sex is one of the only free pleasures we get in life. So I’ll be damned if I don’t make use of every form I like to the fullest and I hope you do the same. So if you’re not a porn watcher, turn on private browsing and start streaming. Go on, deep down you know you want to.

Sapphire

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