Release Your Inner ‘Sexy’

Throughout history sex has been seen as a taboo, and for females it has been frowned upon to discuss and explore sex. Speaking from my own experiences it made me feel unsure and somewhat embarrassed about opening up and learning about sex. Nowadays sex is every where, it’s impossible to leave your house and not see something associated with sex, whether it’s an ad campaign, or simply a couple on the train displaying a bit too much PDA. So why are we still afraid of sex?

Speaking to many females the issue of knowing too much or not knowing enough repeatedly comes up, “how can he see me as a respectable woman if he feels I am too experienced when we make love…will he judge me? will he then lose interest?”. The answer is NO! Ladies it is now 2014 and this old school connotation of sex is long gone.

If you are a respectable woman dating a respectable man, the last thing he is going to do is think that you’re a whore just because you know how to put it down in the bedroom. Men like to feel that they have an equal partner when it comes to sex, someone with the same-sex drive, curiosity and openness towards sex and if he does feel that you’re a step ahead, he’s going to do all that he can to catch up.

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So ladies if your shy, timid or frigid, its time to release your inner sexy. Firstly, let go of any insecurities associated with sex and just feel comfortable with it, talk about sex with friends, research sex; whether its watching porn or taking a trip to your nearest Ann Summers, get to know the ins and outs of sex starting from the basics.

Don’t be afraid of the unknown. Get familiar with new innovative positions, different techniques and styles of having sex, this will also help you figure out what you like, and what you want to try out. Remember a little trial and error wont kill you.

Secondly Communicate, find out what he likes so you are able to pleasure your man the best way you know how. Don’t let constructive criticism get you down. It’s very important to find out how good you are when having sex, so asking for feedback shouldn’t be embarrassing or de-motivating. It will help you improve and also let you know what to keep doing, so ladies don’t get all crazy angry by it, he’s only trying to help.

Most importantly, PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE!!!!! You know what they say right? Practice makes perfect…..


Ms Erotica

Staytuned for more in-depth ways to help you release your inner sexy….


  1. Great blog. I love how open and confident you are about sex. Thats a real strength in this life when it comes to being happy. Thanks for the posts and I hope to read more of it.


  2. I like this post, but criticism is still criticism, even if it is intended constructively. A mature guy should, theoretically, be an excellent diplomat when it comes to women, especially about sex. Gently guiding a woman into what turns him on best, or what not to do, is an excellent and profitable art. Often it involves asking questions of her, instead of telling her flat out, in a not-too-gentle way or even a gentle way. The other approach is for the man to fulfill his classically dominant role in the bedroom, in a gentle way still. I guess diplomacy, and arriving at great sex together, requires a lot of gentleness – a gentleman?


  3. I Literally love your blog. I grew up in church and lost my virginity very late. After finding my first boyfriend outside of church I experienced exactly what you mean. Really struggled… I have had practice but the confidence is still lacking.. I think I should start from the basics and take your advice to try and let go a little. Look forward to your next post x


    1. Same here, when u grow up in the church certain things dont get spoken about as theyre supposed to ‘fall into place’ once your married i guess. Im waitin on your first post girl! Was ready to learn some new hair n beauty stuff, revamp my look lol


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